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<body topmargin=0 leftmargin=0 marginheight=0 marginwidth=0> <table cellpadding=0 cellspacing=0 border=0><tr> <td valign="top" height=75 BGCOLOR="#CC9900" TEXT="#080000" bgproperties="fixed" background="04600840dwnjzk.gif"> <div> <FONT SIZE="5" COLOR="#FFFFFF" FACE="Arial" ><B>HEALING VIBRATIONS</B></FONT><B>     |     </B><A HREF="index.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="HEALING VIBRATIONS"><U><B>home</B></U></A></div> <div> <A HREF="p_1.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Relationship with Divinity p. 1"><U>Relationship with Divinity- p. 1</U></A>   |   <A HREF="aroma.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Aromatherapy p. 2"><U>Aromatherapy - p. 2</U></A>   |   <B>Relationships...p. 3</B>   |   <A HREF="p_4.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Garden Feng Shui p. 4"><U>Garden Feng Shui - p. 4</U></A>   |   <A HREF="kelley.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Ask Kelley p.5"><U>Ask Kelley - p.5</U></A>   |   <A HREF="new.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="New in BHA....p.6"><U>New in BHA....p.6</U></A>   |   <A HREF="events.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Events, Classes p.7"><U>Events, Classes p.7</U></A>   |   <A HREF="p_8.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Fun Stuff ..p.8"><U>Fun Stuff ..p.8</U></A>   |   <A HREF="contact.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Contact Us"><U>Contact Us</U></A>   |   <A HREF="ads.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Ads and Classifieds"><U>Ads and Classifieds</U></A>   |   <A HREF="links.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Links"><U>Links</U></A><FONT SIZE="1" COLOR="#FFFBF0" FACE="Arial" >  |  <A HREF="http://www.boulderhealers.com/directory/"target="_blank"" TARGET="_top" TITLE="http://www.boulderhealers.com/directory/"><U>Directory</U></A></FONT></div> </td> </tr><tr> <td valign="top" height=405 BGCOLOR="#FFFFFF" TEXT="#080000"> <div> <B>Relationships...p. 3</B></div> <bR> <DIV ALIGN="LEFT"></DIV> <div> <TABLE BORDER="4" CELLPADDING="2" CELLSPACING="1" WIDTH="739" BORDERCOLORLIGHT="#CC9900" BORDERCOLORDARK="#CC6600" FRAME="BELOW" RULES="COLS" ALIGN="BOTTOM" HSPACE="0" VSPACE="0" > <tR> <tD VALIGN=TOP COLSPAN=3 HEIGHT= 174 ><NOBR><div> <B><IMG SRC="1a9d7a80.gif" border=0 width="727" height="168" ALIGN="BOTTOM" HSPACE="0" VSPACE="0"></B></div> </NOBR></tD> </tR> <tR> <tD VALIGN=TOP HEIGHT= 1854 WIDTH="28"><IMG BORDER="0" SRC="1x1.gif" HEIGHT="1854" ALIGN="bottom" WIDTH="28" HSPACE="0" VSPACE="0"></tD> <tD VALIGN=CENTER COLSPAN=2 WIDTH="694"><bR> <div> <B>Palmistry addresses the issues of</B>:  Relationships, family, friendships, love, soul mate, emotional turmoil, dreams, ambition, future goals and creating work that gives one's heart joy. Palmistry helps one find his or her spiritual path and creates more meaning to build a more fulfilling life.</div> <div> <B> </B></div> <div> <B> <TABLE BORDER="2" CELLPADDING="2" CELLSPACING="1" WIDTH="134" BORDERCOLORLIGHT="#CC9900" BORDERCOLORDARK="#CC6600" FRAME="BOX" RULES="ALL" ALIGN="BOTTOM" HSPACE="0" VSPACE="0" > <tR> <tD VALIGN=TOP HEIGHT= 16 ><NOBR><div> <B>RELATIONSHIPS</B></div> </NOBR></tD> </tR> </TABLE></B></div> <div> The greatest relationship is the one that we have with ourselves for that determines the quality of the relationship we have with others. The basic purpose of a relationship is to provide mutual support for each other. The ability to provide this kind of nurturing support to someone other than self is a precious gift. The basis of any relationship requires respect, autonomy and mystery. Any relationship can be a spiritual path toward enlightenment, however it must be built on truthful communication where neither person feels superior all the time. In a solid, successful soul mate relationship the leadership shifts back and forth between the couple, where sometimes one partner is in control and has all the bright ideas and their partner goes with the flow. The next day the creative ideas may flow and develop from the other person. Neither partner is always the leader or the follower<U>.</U> When a person knows the type of partner they seek in a mate and seriously contemplate discovering that person, they are bound to discover what is rightfully theirs. Relationships are not simply a project to be taken on. Humans are not used to dealing with grace artfully, appreciating one another and giving thanks, honoring and celebrating life. A relationship is not in existence to make us feel good inside, but rather to lead us toward our potential and destiny. Of utmost importance is not what one gets out of a relationship, but what one brings to it. It isn't only about the people who interact with each other, but the vehicle that shapes all life. </div> <div> <I><B> <TABLE BORDER="2" CELLPADDING="2" CELLSPACING="1" WIDTH="278" BORDERCOLORLIGHT="#CC9900" BORDERCOLORDARK="#CC6600" FRAME="BOX" RULES="ALL" ALIGN="BOTTOM" HSPACE="0" VSPACE="0" > <tR> <tD VALIGN=TOP HEIGHT= 16 ><NOBR><div> <I><B>RELATIONSHIP MISTAKES CHECKLIST</B></I></div> </NOBR></tD> </tR> </TABLE></B></I></div> <div> Six mistakes to avoid in the beginning of any relationship: </div> <div> 1. Not asking enough questions </div> <div> 2. Ignoring warning signs of potential problems </div> <div> 3. Making premature compromises </div> <div> 4. Giving in to blind lust right away </div> <div> 5. Giving in to seduction</div> <div> 6. Putting commitment before compatibility </div> <div> Couples who share similar values have more success in having a harmonious, lasting relationship. When there are opposite value systems present tension is created which causes bickering and fighting. When they are soul mates, all things are equal and easy. It is the same as if both people have been together previously. In soul mate encounters this is true, for both have been on this planet before as someone else and because they have a karmic debt to repay their path crosses in this lifetime and they "CONNECT", (actually they reconnect).</div> <div> In choosing the right partner one must look for character, not simply looks or personality. A common thread is present where both have similar interests, ambition, and goals for the future.</div> <div> <I><B> <TABLE BORDER="2" CELLPADDING="2" CELLSPACING="1" WIDTH="322" BORDERCOLORLIGHT="#CC9900" BORDERCOLORDARK="#CC6600" FRAME="BOX" RULES="ALL" ALIGN="BOTTOM" HSPACE="0" VSPACE="0" > <tR> <tD VALIGN=TOP HEIGHT= 16 ><NOBR><div> <I><B>15 QUALITIES TO LOOK FOR IN A SOUL MATE</B></I></div> </NOBR></tD> </tR> </TABLE></B></I></div> <div> 1. Commitment to learning, personal transformation </div> <div> 2. Emotionally open, compassionate </div> <div> 3. Integrity, honesty </div> <div> 4. Maturity, responsibility </div> <div> 5. Good self-esteem, self confident </div> <div> 6. Self-improvement </div> <div> 7. Positive attitude </div> <div> 8. Sharing ideas, opinions, and feelings </div> <div> 9. Trustworthiness </div> <div> 10. Sensitive </div> <div> 11. Passionate </div> <div> 12. Pride in self </div> <div> 13. Good self image </div> <div> 14. Cooperative </div> <div> 15. Sexual chemistry </div> <bR> <DIV ALIGN="LEFT"></DIV> <div> <I><B> <TABLE BORDER="2" CELLPADDING="2" CELLSPACING="1" WIDTH="348" BORDERCOLORLIGHT="#CC9900" BORDERCOLORDARK="#CC6600" FRAME="BOX" RULES="ALL" ALIGN="BOTTOM" HSPACE="0" VSPACE="0" > <tR> <tD VALIGN=TOP HEIGHT= 16 ><NOBR><div> <I><B>PART 2:  HOW TO RECOGNIZE YOUR SOUL MATE</B></I> </div> </NOBR></tD> </tR> </TABLE></B></I></div> <div>  </div> <div> The most satisfying relationship is when two people are romantically entwined. They radiate similar vibrations. The chance meeting of soul mates is predestined for their soul's growth. Ancient healers and mystics believed that each of us plays an important role in creating our own reality through the choices we make daily that helps us to learn lessons involving love versus hate, power versus cooperation. It is through these kinds of lessons and challenges that the soul grows so that one can discover self. We know when we have found our counterparts because all learning is remembering the past. Humans are the sum total of all our experience from the beginning of time. During a lifetime an individual could come into contact with thousands of soul mates among his or her peers. How one works, plays, dreams, aspires, thinks, and relates to others - this is LIFE. Life is a reflection of all our previous lifetimes. All life experience is evaluated and taken into consideration in looking at each other's personality. Shared past lives is the prerequisite for a soul mate relationship in this lifetime. </div> <bR> <div> <B> <TABLE BORDER="2" CELLPADDING="2" CELLSPACING="1" WIDTH="303" BORDERCOLORLIGHT="#CC9900" BORDERCOLORDARK="#CC6600" FRAME="BOX" RULES="ALL" ALIGN="BOTTOM" HSPACE="0" VSPACE="0" > <tR> <tD VALIGN=TOP HEIGHT= 39 ><NOBR><div> <I><B>SOUL MATES CONNECT ON THREE LEVELS</B></I></div> <div> <I><B>(1) Desire     (2) Intent     (3) True Love</B></I></div> </NOBR></tD> </tR> </TABLE></B></div> <div> The soul mate union teaches and supports both partners. The point is not knowing another person or learning to love another person. It is how we are able to welcome others into our hearts. </div> <DIV ALIGN="LEFT"></DIV> <div> 'If you love someone, put their name in a circle instead of a heart, </div> <div> because hearts can break but circles go on forever.'</div> <div> The greatest connection one can have is with self, which determines the quality of all relationships throughout life with others. Love is attracted and all relationships continue to express love and joy. Every stage in life exists to serve us and to bring each of us closer to happiness and to love. Each stage teaches us how to trust our heart allowing more love into our lives.  </div> <DIV ALIGN="LEFT"></DIV> <div> <I>'Love makes time pass. Time makes love pass.'  Euripides</I></div> <div> Just as any building or structure has a base, or floor that supports it, in a soul mate relationship, the foundation of this union consists of the following traits. These elements are the basis of soul mate. Without them, the soul mate structure is not complete. These characteristics must be present during the courtship period, growing stronger as the relationship is cultivated and as it matures.</div> <div> <B> <TABLE BORDER="2" CELLPADDING="2" CELLSPACING="1" WIDTH="260" BORDERCOLORLIGHT="#CC9900" BORDERCOLORDARK="#CC6600" FRAME="BOX" RULES="ALL" ALIGN="BOTTOM" HSPACE="0" VSPACE="0" > <tR> <tD VALIGN=CENTER HEIGHT= 24 ><NOBR><div> <B>The Foundation of a Relationship</B></div> </NOBR></tD> </tR> </TABLE></B></div> <div> <I><B>FRIENDSHIP</B></I>: In any relationship both people must first be friends. Friendships can be cultivated. This phase of a relationship can either grow and develop into “best friends” or remain simply friends, which would be in the same category as acquaintances.</div> <div> <I><B>HONOR</B></I>: Each person in the relationship should honor the other. There should be no competition or one-upmanship between the two. </div> <div> <I><B>TRUST</B></I>: Both individuals should be able to trust the other unconditionally. </div> <div> Respect: Respect would be present in their eyes for one another. Neither would put the other down. A feeling of being proud of the other should be in the make-up.</div> <div> <I><B>SPONTANEITY</B></I>: Spontaneous action is important. Spur of the moment ideas would come from the minds of the people involved. </div> <div> <I><B>EXAMPLES</B></I>: “Let's go on a picnic!”, “Want to go to the mountains for a look at the changing leaves right now?”, “Maybe we should plan a future vacation”, or “Do you want to start a saving account for vacation funds?”</div> <div> <I><B>AFFECTION</B></I>: Affection is personal, a form of endearment between two people. It is best to keep personal touching private. Those who are openly affectionate in public are being overly demonstrative for the attention they can garner. True affection is felt without public displays.</div> <div> <I><B>LOVE</B></I>: Love is the ultimate trait in the basic line-up of the floor of the soul mate symbol. It should take at least six months for anyone to declare their love for another. The first weeks of any relationship are exciting where lust plus infatuation are in the mix. Once the couple settles down in the coupling and go through the up and downs with one another and when six months have passed, love is the feeling that emerges.  <FONT SIZE="2" COLOR="#CC9900" FACE="Webdings" >Y</FONT></div> </tD> </tR> </TABLE></div> <div> <TABLE BORDER="4" CELLPADDING="6" CELLSPACING="1" WIDTH="682" BORDERCOLORLIGHT="#CC9900" BORDERCOLORDARK="#CC6600" FRAME="BELOW" RULES="NONE" ALIGN="BOTTOM" HSPACE="0" VSPACE="0" > <tR> <tD VALIGN=TOP HEIGHT= 142 WIDTH="668"><div> <I><IMG SRC="16a6d810.jpg" border=0 width="109" height="129" ALIGN="LEFT" HSPACE="0" VSPACE="0"></I></div> <div> <I>MYRNA LOU is a renowned national and international palmist, psychic, author, lecturer and teacher. 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